Title: The 5 Senses System: Uncover infidelity in just 14 days
Word count: 5,000
Subject: A concise guide to uncovering whether or not your partner is cheating on you that revolves around the concept of using your 5 senses to find and analyse the evidence you need to know the truth
Sexual jealousy is a powerful force. It can slowly poison a person’s mind with doubt and suspicion, then build and build until it spills out as a verbal accusation, or worse. Mate-guarding (the strategies we all use to keep a tab on our partners’ romantic interests and those of the people around him or her) is a natural psychological phenomenon that has evolved to protect our sexual investment in a relationship, but it can sometimes play tricks on us. Like seeing a man’s silhouette in your room late at night, only to realize once the light is on that it’s a pile of clothes on a chair, we can misinterpret others’ behaviour, see things in them that aren’t there, signs that point to places they do not go. Then again, people do cheat, they do deceive–it does happen. How, then, is one to know when the green-eyed monster is toying with one’s mind? Or when our partner really cannot be trusted with our most precious of personal commodities: our feelings. Dun, dun, dun….
If a book’s subtitle contains the words ‘…in just 14 days!’, you’d be right to approach it with caution. It’s a pretty sensationalist tagline. I was consigned to write this relatively short eBook on the subject of ‘betrayal detection’ and, unfortunately, it did require somewhat of a late night TV feel to it–at least, on the outside.
I wanted to pack as much useful, usable information on the subject into the eBook as possible, without overdoing the ‘Is she, isn’t he?’ thing. The theme was the 5 senses (sight, sound, smell, etc.) and the concept was that, by using their senses in the right way, at the right times, the reader could, in the space of a couple of weeks, get a good idea of whether they were actually right to be feeling suspicious of their partner’s dedication to them. They were then advised on what might be the right course of action for them to take from that point forward.
You have to face the brutal truth if you want the best chance of finding out what’s really going on. If your partner is cheating on you, it’s for a reason. In their mind there’s a justification for going behind your back and seeing someone else. Perhaps they’re bored with you, not getting the emotional support or attention they feel they need or maybe it’s a physical thing. They’ve seen the greener grass and want a munch of it. Put aside the question of whether they’re right or wrong in their decision to cheat, if that turns out to be what they’re doing, and focus for now on the fact that if they’re sleeping with someone else, your sexual relationship with them is likely to change in some way. By identifying these alterations, if there are any, you’ll be able to better evaluate the likelihood that they are cheating on you.
This eBook is short and to the point and gets across the key points the reader needs to understand, except without all of the scaremongering found in so many of the eBooks that are out there on the same subject.